http://blog.china.com/u/080317/124764/ 感情你我他 my3210 my3210 http://blog.china.com/u/080317/124764/200806/2849330.html <![CDATA[ <br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>一、无字情书</strong></p><p>　　那种暗示的方法曾经风行于80年代，可是当时我就偏偏不懂。一天，我收到了一封莫名其妙的来信，邮票倒着贴在上面。我认出了信封上他的字迹，可是信封里却是空空如也。也许是因为未收到回音，他终于忍不住来找我，捧来一摞厚厚的白纸，“这回你就不必借口没有稿纸而不回信了。”</p><p>　　<strong>二、爱屋及乌</strong></p><p>　　我是先认识它，然后才认识她的。她经常在晚上带着那只小狗来公园散步，再以后我和它成了好朋友，接着我和她也成了好朋友。 一天我们坐在长椅上休息的时候，我拍拍小狗，对它说；“告诉你的主人，你还需要一位男主人照顾。”</p><p>　<strong>　三、占卜</strong></p><p>　　我最喜欢用扑克牌给别人算命，因此找我来求福求财的朋友无数，可是我偏偏不给她算，只是告诉她；“你的命运是天定的。”自然她不是很满意。后来我又告诉她：“我的命运也是天定的，咱们有缘。”结果她不相信天命，却同意我的预言。</p><p>　<strong>　四、执手相看</strong></p><p>　　其实我并不懂五行之术，却装出江湖术士的样子，抓起她的手，“我来给你看相。”并信口胡说一番。然后又伸出我的手给她看，“请注意我的掌纹和你自己的掌纹。”说着煞有介事地将我的掌心和她的贴在一起。</p><p>　　“知道这叫什么吗？”我故作深沉，紧接着说，“这叫心心相印。”</p><p>　<strong>　五、谁比谁笨</strong></p><p>　　她总是说我笨，因为跳舞时我总是踩她的脚。可是我觉得她比我笨，吃饭比跳舞容易多了，可是她却不断地在桌子底下踩我的脚。现在一想，还是我笨。</p><p>　<strong>　六、借椟还珠</strong></p><p>　　小说里男女主人公的相爱经常是从借书开始的，没想到我也碰到了，每次找我他都会借书，然后保存得很小心地还给我。后来他在书里夹了张纸条，“我喜欢你”。</p><p>　<strong>　七、大打出手</strong></p><p>　　她被称作“女侠”，原因是她身边的男士无不遭受过她的皮肉之苦。惟有我例外，她对我客客气气，言听计从。后来人们不再称她作“女侠”，原因是她对身边的男士突然变得客气起来。惟有我例外，时常受到她的“独”打。</p><p>　　<strong>八、替身情侣</strong></p><p>　　她对我挺好的，但女孩的心思很难猜，总有点若即若离的感觉。后来，我特意找了个老同学陪我散步，当然也是个女孩子，当她出现的时候，我们还装作很亲密的样子。她果然信以为真，泪水差点流出来，转身就跑。我马上追过去，拉住她说：“你别生气，我是试你的，现在我知道了，我是喜欢你才这样做的。”她破涕为笑。我们的拍拖就是这样开始的。</p><p>　<strong>　九、照片的作用</strong></p><p>　　我在大二的时候就喜欢上她了，但我不知道她是否有和我相同的感觉。于是，我翻拍并放大了一张她的照片，放在自己的桌子上。她来玩的时候，我把她让到桌前坐下，然后借故洗苹果出去。她在翻看桌上的书刊时，自然看到了下面自己的照片，她很吃惊，但其实很高兴，我看得出来的。这时我就凑过去道歉说：“不好意思。我喜欢就这么做了，如你不高兴，我马上撤掉好了。”她却慌忙说：“别，别，挺好的，其实我家里有更好的，明天我拿给你呀！”</p><p>　　这时候，我对自己的感觉确信无疑了。</p><p>　<strong>　十、距离与爱</strong></p><p>　　交往挺长时间了，但由于双方都没说过一个爱字，我对和他的关系心里没底。有一天我俩出去吃饭，以前都是对着坐的，那次我特意坐在了他的身边。一个微妙的变化，却拉近了双方的距离，他对我的心意自然是很清楚的。那天他特别兴奋，话也极多，距离的拉近似乎增加了他的勇气，他的手也爬到了我的肩膀上，凑过脸来说悄悄话，我则顺势把头埋到他的怀里。我们的爱情能走到今天，真得感谢距离的改变。</p>　<strong>十二、步步紧逼</strong></p><p>　　“有女孩请我看电影。”我说，她很紧张，眼巴巴地等下文。我于是话锋一转：“但我谢绝了。”她微笑一下，很放松。 我便乘胜追击：“我只想和你去看。”结果，那天我们便牵着手去了。</p><p>　<strong>　十三、送我一程</strong></p><p>　　他每天都站在公司的门口，看我骑车走了，他才离去。几乎风雨无误。但他每次都把我瞟得心慌意乱了，却死不开口，是个胆小鬼！后来我忍不住了，上去说：“送我一程，好吗？”他忙不迭地答应了，连兴奋都掩饰不住。</p><p>　<strong>　十四、借书的学问</strong></p><p>　　她经常来我这儿借书，有意思的是明明借过的书了，仍像新书似的借走了，还很感兴趣地问我书怎么样。后来我问她：“怎么借书也不会借？一本书借了好几次。”她却振振有词地说：“我是故意的，要不你还真以为我喜欢你的书呀！”</p><p>　　<strong>十五、花语</strong></p><p>　　2月14日情人节，她打电话问我：“知道3朵玫瑰代表什么吗？”我说：“当然，花语是‘我爱你’。”她沉默了一会儿，开始嗔怪我：“既然知道，为什么不送我一份？是不是邮差还在路上？”</p><p>　<strong>　十六、美食其意</strong></p><p>　　其实她根本不懂烹饪，却跟我大谈各种美味，并且口口声声要亲自下厨给我做。结果她做了一盘烧糊的炸牛排，没能征服我的胃口，却打动了我的心。</p><p>　<strong>　十七、浪漫之举</strong></p><p>　　人家都说搞艺术的人最浪漫，可他整天除了画画还是画画，让我怀疑自己是不是自作多情。他用一幅画打消了我的疑虑：美丽的大漠长烟，夕阳山外山，他牵着我的手共赴旅途。</p><p>　<strong>　十八、类比</strong></p><p>　　一天晚上我在她家聊天，谈着谈着，她忽然不言语了。然后盯着我，她笑着说：“你说话的腔调，跟我爸对我妈说话一样。”我不禁怦然心动。</p><p>　<strong>　十九、虚惊</strong></p><p>　　说来惭愧，那层窗户纸还是她捅破的。我们一块吃晚饭，她破例端起了酒杯。酒过三巡，她向我透露：“有个男人追我。”我马上急了，“千万要三思而后行，可别饥不择食。”“人家挺优秀的。”我更急了，“难道你就没注意到，在你眼前晃来晃去的这个男人都优秀？”</p><p>　　她笑了：“那个男人就是你。”</p><p>　<strong>　二十、“和你一样的”</strong></p><p>　　有一次她问我：“将来找一个什么样的女朋友？”我知道她在试验我，便回答说：“和你一样高的，和你一样重的，嘴巴和你一样小的，脸和你一样圆的。”她打断我：“这样的有几个呀？”“有一个就够了，我只爱着你，相信我！”说到这时，便可以挑明了。她虽然嘴里埋怨我贫嘴，但那天她笑得却最开心，她以为终于诱出我的心里话，其实我何尝不是这么想的。</p><p 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后来他们俩毕业不久就结婚了，现在日子过得很好，两人都非常感激我。</p><p>　　对于这件事而言，我认为我的作用是微乎其微的，发挥决定性作用的还是泡妞主体的个人觉悟及其爱情自信心。我今天不想用“丑女多作怪”来形容一些女性，这样毕竟有些太不人道，但我今天想说的是，有些长相一般的女人对自己太不自信从而导致了爱情良知的缺失，她们总不相信这个世界上真的会有男人来主动追求她们，即便是有了，她们也会毫无理由的将姿态放得很高很高，努力想要获得比那些美女更多的荣耀和自尊。我觉得这么做，很容易让她们患上心理上与智力上的双重疾病。――这就是导致丑女难泡的心理因素与智力因素。</p><p>　　当然，我并不是想建议广大的泡友同志们要有意地抵制丑女、崇尚美女，丑女一样可以平易近人，美女一样可以傲气凌人，从某种程度上说，丑女的母性特征较为明显，而美女的兽性特征较为明显。那些缺乏母爱的男人最好去泡丑女，那些性冷淡的男人有条件的话尽量去泡美女。</p><p>　　总体说来，女人的长相与我们泡之的难易程度没有必然的联系，但根据量子力学的原理，我勉强可以告诉大家：在同等条件下，美女较之丑女，泡起来会更加容易一点。</p><p><strong>　　二、总以为处女都是纯洁的</strong></p><p>　　处女具有肉体和精神的双重属性，世上只有一半的处女能够保持肉体和精神上的双处女，而剩下那另一半的处女也就图有一层光鲜的处女膜，在精神上她们早就不是处女了，在精神上，她们比非处还要非处。有些处女结婚前谈了很多次恋爱，跟很多人都睡过觉，五花八门的性游戏全都见识过了，每当男人想要捅破她的下半身，她就大喊“暂停”，在这类处女的眼中，无论多么美好的爱情无论多么深刻的情感都不及那层处女膜来得珍贵，所以这样的“处女膜捍卫者”永远都得不到真正的爱情，她们是可悲的，她们总是在结婚之后，凭借一张处女膜向自己的丈夫诉说着自己的贞洁，她们想要索取的比那些非处新娘要多得多，一但她们发现自己坚守了那么多年的贞操价值并不能被家庭和社会所承认，她们就会疯狂地去找寻她们曾经失去的青春年华，于是，她们学会了偷情。所以说，那些娶了处女为妻的男人也许活得并不开心。</p><p>　　处女只是个生理特征，而非道德因素，如果有谁将她作为婚姻的筹码那将是可笑的。</p><p>　　处女，与妻子无关，对于男人来说，只要拥有过就算没有白活，哪怕你在临死前才遇到，那也不失为一种可爱的人生，就算永远遇不到，那也无须悲伤，因为这个世界已经足够悲伤。</p>ic 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>第3页:3</option></select> <p><strong><img alt="" src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20080416/img256338229.jpg" align=middle><br>　　三、总以为送上门的都是烂货</strong></p><p>　　有很多人总是以为一些送上门来让自己白玩的女人都是别人玩剩下来的烂货，其实这是男人们对女人们的最大误会。今天我想说的是：那些真正的垃圾女人是绝对不会送上门来让你白玩的！为了体现她们肮脏肉体与卑微灵魂的低廉价值，他们对男人会百般刁难，提出种种借口与条件逃避一次又一次的牵手、亲吻和性爱。我宁可相信那突如其来的爱情故事，我也不相信那些经过死缠烂打、唇枪舌战之后看似如火纯青、洁白无暇的爱情协议。 爱情是种情感而不是个和约，爱情没有任何附加条款，她是无条件的感情世界赋予人们的幸福感受，哪怕她是痛不欲生的或是昙花一现的，她最终都将是刻骨铭心的。</p><p>　　无论送上门的女人还是我们自己辛苦寻得的女人，她们都是平等的，都值得我们用心去爱。从泡妞的角度来看，如果我们能够选择守株待兔，为何非要大海捞针呢？如果我们错过了那些爱慕自己的女人，我们的幸福生活将会葬送在那片无边的死海之中。</p><p><strong>　　四、总以为有钱就能通吃</strong></p><p>　　前天晚上我在酒吧买醉，跟朋友喝了几瓶洋酒，与身边的一位陪酒女郎玩了很多猜拳游戏，于是她跟我就似乎有了“感情”，问了我很多私人问题，如果不是因为我带了一个临时女友，我想那天晚上我一定跟那陪酒女郎上床了。是的，哪天晚上我们表现得挺有钱的，很多女人都簇拥过来。我心理明白，这样的女人全部可以用金钱来换取的，所以我觉得她们并不珍贵。世上凡是可以用货币来购买的商品都算不上珍贵。世上有很多女人都不吃金钱这一套，真正有本事的男人搞的都是这样的女人。有很多男人动不动就鄙视某女人财迷心窍，那其实很清楚地说明了他本人的无能。两手空空干女人与白手起家干事业同样可以证明一个男人的能力。</p><p>　　古人视金钱如粪土，我认为他们是在说慌。只有当女人爱上男人的时候，金钱才真正地成了粪土。</p><p><strong>　　五、总以为长得帅就有魅力</strong></p><p>　　有天晚上，我老婆看“莱卡好男儿”，突然她说：怎么现在的男人都长得跟娘儿们似的，我听说过古代女人以胖为美，听说过文艺复兴时期欧洲人以留胡子为美，却没见过现代男人以变态为美的。是的，不仅是我老婆，我想很多女人都已经对所谓的帅哥审美疲劳了。莱卡好男儿是我们男人的耻辱。女人用她的美貌来获得他人的追捧和宠爱是无可厚非的，倘若男人也用他的长相来博取他人施舍的同情与恩典那将是非常卑鄙的。我早就说过，欣赏男人相貌的女人是低俗的也是愚蠢的，是没有教养和没有层次的，是鼠目寸光和没有见过世面的。即便我本人长得不算难看，我还是要这么说。所谓的帅哥之所以到最后总没有好的下场就是这个缘故，是他们一开始就动用了自己的色相。女人，在长大之后，她们总会选择有内涵的男人，而不是一个弱不禁风的软腿帅哥。漂亮女人，无论被多少人玷污过，依然谁都想要；漂亮男人，被人玩到最后，肚子大了，谁都不想要。男人长的帅绝对没有错，只要你不将它当做武器或资本，因为青春不是以帅作为衡量尺度的。</p>ic 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selected>第3页:3</option></select> <p><strong>　　六、总以为可以逃避惩罚</strong></p><p>　　很多的情场老手玩弄了无数女性，却不曾付出任何的责任和代价，一贯以调情大师自居，伤害了很多人，洋洋得意风流成性。 这样的人出来混久了迟早要还的，我从来不相信世上存在那种毫无感情的人，只是他们偿还的日期没有来到而已。他们辜负了很多女人的真心，待他们吐出来的那一天，他们会觉得生不如死、天昏地暗，整日以泪洗面，人生失去意义。我可以看着我的情人当面玩弄妓男，我却不能容忍她背着我去跟别的男人约会。你可以占有很多的肉体却不可以欺骗很多的感情，谁都逃避不了应有的惩罚。男人是这样，女人也是这样，谁都不知道谁会玩弄谁，谁都不知道谁会突然爱上谁，谁也不知道谁会背叛谁，谁也不知道最终谁会惩罚谁。</p><p><strong>　　七、总为家庭愧疚</strong></p><p>　　既然要泡妞，那就好好地泡，坦坦荡荡地泡，不要唯唯诺诺、胆惊受怕，那样不但捉鸡不成蚀把米，还要遭到众妞的鄙视。一个男人一生不可能只爱上一个女人，一个女人一生也不可能只爱上一个男人，如果没有出轨，那只是机会没到。想泡就泡吧，无需愧疚，无需忏悔，偷情或泡妞是我们人生道路的必由之路，如果缺乏了这一点，我们的人生就是不完美的。我们有了情人，并不意味着我们就背叛了家庭，我们可以对待我们的妻子更加美好。丈夫总不希望妻子偷情，妻子总不希望丈夫出轨，可谁也无法真正地约束自己，只要有机会，他们谁也不会放弃。与其彼此责备、互相愧疚还不如坦然地享受。</p><p>　　我对我的情人说：我一生嫖妓无数，并未做过身体检查，我害怕我患上了爱滋，请让你的老公做个检查吧，别被我无辜地传染了。</p><p>　　我的情人对我说：如果你哪天死了，我一定陪你一起死，但我希望你的妻子和孩子都活着......</p><p>　　</p>]]> 星期五, 18 四月 2008 04:00:33 GMT http://blog.china.com/u/080317/124764/200804/2377674.html 2008-04-18T04:00:33Z http://blog.china.com/u/080317/124764/200804/2377671.html <![CDATA[ ic 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>第2页:2</option></select>　　在我们面临的诱惑越来越多的情况下，在传统道德观念受到强烈冲击的背景中，“外遇”几乎成了每个家庭、每个人都必须面对和防范的一件事情，一味地痛恨外遇、谴责外遇是没有用的……<br><center><b><img height=300 src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20080416/img256336407.jpg" width=400 border=1></b><br><br></center>　　一听到“外遇”这个词，几乎所有的人，首先想到的就是男人，如果是夫妻的话自然指的就是丈夫。<br><br>　　人们普遍认为男人有外遇的情况很多。在文艺界人士或运动员当中，有些夫妻或恋人分道扬镳的决定性因素，在于男方有了外遇。与之相比，因为女方红杏出墙而分手的例子却不多见。正如人们周知的那样，男女外遇的比例为3比1，或者是5比1。<br><br>　　那么，为什么男人会出现外遇呢？尤其是作为丈夫的男人更容易拈花惹草呢？<br><br>　　<strong>男人体力在下降</strong><br><br>　　首先从男人的生理特征来看，如前所述，男人的快感从青少年时期就已经觉醒，而且这种快感实际上呈一种缓慢的下降趋势。 <br><br>　　具体来说，男性从15岁左右性意识忽然开始觉醒，到了15岁以后，几乎所有的男性都能够自己体会到一种如醉如痴的快感，而且随着首次和异性发生关系，快感达到极点，男人在生理上和心理上都得到极大的满足。<br><br>　　和男人初次就能获得快感相比，女性的初次性体验却伴随着许多不安和胆怯，即使对象是自己喜欢的男人，女性也几乎享受不到快感。然而女性随着做爱次数的增加，不安感和疼痛感逐渐消失，同时也逐渐开始感受到了性快感，当性经验积累到一定时候，最终达到高潮。特别是已婚的女性，经过怀孕、生产，在性方面的快感进一步增强。<br><br>　　曾经对一对男女进行观察，男人在初次做爱时快感最为强烈，以后快感节节下降，呈下降曲线。与之相对，女性初次性交时感受到的快感极为微弱，但这之后会逐步加强，呈上升曲线。<br><br>　　男性快感的下降曲线和女性快感的上升曲线，在男女之间发生关系以后多久会出现交叉呢？因个案不同而情况各不相同，但是总会在一个时间点上发生交叉，这是一个不争的事实。<br><br>　　<br>　　<strong>男人爱情靠比较</strong><br><br>　　还有一个造成男人容易产生外遇的原因值得考虑，就是应该称之为“男人在爱情方面的复数倾向”的问题。<br><br>　　具体来说，就是指男人可以在爱着一个女性的同时，又把目光转向其他的女性，男人可以说是一种多情而不定性的动物。<br><br>　　在这一点上，女性是截然不同的，如果一个女性目前爱上了a这个男人，那么她眼中只会有a这个男人，接着由于某种机缘，又爱上b这个男人，那么，以前关于a的种种就会被忘得一干二净，她所有的心思又都会集中在b身上。<br><br>　　也就是说，女性的爱是集中型的。和女性这种“所有或者没有”的做法相比，男人却是一种可以同时爱上多位女性的动物。<br><br>　　因此，一个男人即使在恋爱中对女性说：“你是我最喜欢的”，他所说的也只是第一喜欢这个词，其他还可能有第二喜欢的、第三喜欢的，这样去理解也不过份。<br><br>　　由此可见，如果把女性的爱情称为集中型的，那么男性的爱情可称为是比较型的。<br><br>　　总之，男人不会把注意力集中在一点上，他们会不断地环视四周，总是对新鲜事物抱有兴趣，因此男人可以说是一种不能大意的、容易有外遇的动物。<br><br>　　当然，同样是男人，不去拈花惹草，不对周围的女性发生兴趣的也不是不存在；相反在女性当中，也有不断地把目光转向其他男性的水性杨花的女性。但这些都只能说是一些例外，是少数派。大多数的男人和女性相比，存在着爱情复数倾向的外遇性，这是一个不争的事实。<br><br>　　而那些红杏出墙的女性，多数也是因为没有一个从真正意义上喜欢的人，所以才不上不下地浮在半空中，如果有了自己真正喜欢的男性，许多女性都出人意料地脚踏实地。<br><br>　　总之，男性在爱情方面的复数倾向，再加上男人随着做爱次数的增加而性快感逐渐减弱，是男人在性方面上的两大特征，我们可以确信这也正是男人和女性相比容易产生外遇的原因。 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